Louie Ruelas Ex-Girlfriend Exposed! Stalking & More

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Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the sufferer of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For individuals who don’t know, Louie Ruelas truly filed a restraining order in opposition to the ex-girlfriend again in 2020.

Vanessa Reiser has a historical past of labeling her exes and trying to defame them to anybody who will hear. Previous to Louie, Vanessa was married two earlier occasions. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and he or she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist. 

Previous to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa additionally allegedly dated a person named Paul Devlin who has affiliation with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep after which put an order of safety in opposition to him. 

In accordance with court docket paperwork Paul even despatched a letter to Glenn whereas he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was present in court docket paperwork in opposition to Vanessa Reiser.

On Might 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order in opposition to Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that whereas he and Vanessa discovered their divorce, he requested to maneuver into an additional room within the marital residence till issues have been all sorted out.

Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa dedicated the next household offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment within the first or second diploma, stalking and prison mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa the place she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He requested her to depart and when she lastly did, he heard a giant bang and needed to contact the police division submitting a home incident report.

Glenn recollects, “The next morning, I seen a dent on my automobile, which was brought on by Vanessa the evening prior.”

Glenn talks about an incident from Might 15, 2018 the place is legal professional submitted their Verizon Invoice which contained his telephone information. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to start contacting numbers discovered on her telephone information and zoned in on his buddy, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mother with an 8 yr outdated son.

Vanessa started contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of getting an affair with Danielle. He knowledgeable his legal professional.

On Might 18th, 2018 — he was knowledgeable that Vanessa positioned a tracker on his automobile and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months.

Glenn says,

“Since Might sixteenth, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual buddies continuous, harassing, and making false accusations that I’ve been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. That is affecting my work and my each day being. Vanessa has no professional purpose to have interaction on this habits. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we’re in the course of an motion for divorce.”

Glenn pleads, “I’m afraid for my security, and Vanessa’s habits. Vanessa doesn’t desire a divorce and her habits has been more and more erratic since being served with the motion for divorce. She is unstable.”

Glenn then requests an order of safety that Vanessa be ordered to steer clear of him, his dwelling, work place, and that Vanessa chorus from any and all communication with him or any third events about him.

Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser.

The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the identical precise patterns since he bought with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram relating to Louie’s earlier look. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas previous few years a residing hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, but continues following all of his spouse’s co-stars, Melissa’s members of the family, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and extra. She engages repeatedly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and feedback on majority of Melissa Gorgas pictures. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania each comply with her. All movies which have been launched of Louie Ruelas since showing on the Actual Housewives have been movies he had despatched the ex-girlfriend. 

This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been involved with Margaret Josephs for the previous few years and so they each comply with one another on Instagram. Victims who’ve been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, sometimes need nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to damage Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media earlier than they blocked her. 

The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas:

This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did an important job with laying out all the small print

In accordance with the court docket paperwork, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the principle dwelling with a buddy, carrying black rubbish baggage. Louie states that he was watching a film with one in every of his sons and he or she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The following day Louie takes authorized motion 

Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she not contact him, disparage him publicly. He additionally requested that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his firm.

 Just a few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s buddy to ask him to speak with Louie on her behalf.

Bravo ducking Bravo says that “throughout their relationship, they have been lively donors at a charity for girls. Louie states that he helped her grow to be a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of group and Vanessa heard about it. He defined why he believed Vanessa is probably not a superb match for the group.”

Within the court docket doc, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on an everyday, together with psychological manipulation to threats of private {and professional} hurt.

Elizabeth, 

I hope this e-mail finds you nicely.  As you understand, I’ve been a supporter of the vital work of the Middle for Security and Change (CSC) for numerous years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a toddler, the influence of intimate companion violence, I imagine deeply within the worth of the sources supplied by CSC. 

As a enterprise proprietor, I’m aware of the truth that a corporation is made up of people, and its imaginative and prescient and success is guided by the Board of Administrators. It’s for that purpose I write you right this moment, as I’m involved in regards to the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Administrators for the CSC. 

As you understand, Ms. Reiser and I have been in a relationship for a number of years and it was, partly, my suggestion and assist that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. On the time, Ms. Reiser and I had solely been in an intimate relationship for a comparatively quick time period and I believed that she was dedicated to the elemental ethical and philosophical principals on which CSC was based. 

Sadly, looking back, I’m now conscious that on the time I made the advice Ms. Reiser was participating me within the “honeymoon part” generally recognized within the “wheel” mannequin of intimate companion violence. What adopted, within the months after, was a basic presentation of coercive management and intimate companion abuse that, with the assist of household and buddies, I used to be solely capable of extricate myself from during the last a number of weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of private {and professional} hurt, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in psychological well being to have interaction in “gaslighting” techniques in opposition to me, all whereas taking horrible benefit of me financially, together with, however not restricted to, such behaviors as eradicating funds from my accounts with out my prior information or consent. Once more, like so many perpetrators of intimate companion abuse, whereas she was participating in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser efficiently remoted me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my assist system, to make sure that I might stay vulnerable to her management. 

Whereas I’m working onerous, with the assist of buddies and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological hurt Ms. Reiser’s behaviors brought on to me, and dealing with my legal professional to pursue all obtainable treatments for the aforesaid monetary improprieties, I needed to deliver these points to your consideration so that you could be take no matter steps could also be applicable to deal with the influence of identical on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It’s my perception that her continued participation on the Board of Administrators threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC. 

I do know that you just, personally, and CSC, as a corporation, are deeply dedicated to rising consciousness of intimate companion violence and supporting those that have been impacted by it. The presence of a person, on the Board of Administrators, who engages within the very behaviors that the CSC was based to stop and eradicate is deeply problematic. Though I’ve no want to contain you, or any third events in points arising from the top of a relationship, my conscience required that I deliver this matter to your consideration so that you could be take no matter steps you deem applicable to guard the Board and CSC mission. 

Are you able to please ahead this e-mail to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her e-mail. 

Thanks to your consideration and consideration.  

Respectfully-

Louie 

In one other court docket doc, Louie reveals, equally to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would find him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his assist system, to make sure he stays underneath her management. 

The court docket doc states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a second of weak point he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our dialog and making an attempt to persuade me to not pursue my claims for the ring and cash.”

Two weeks later, Vanessa recordsdata a civil motion/criticism about protecting a enterprise that Louie made for her. She asks for management of the enterprise that he made for her

Louie recordsdata a swimsuit proper afterwards and states he’s solely submitting as a result of she wont return the ring and cash owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic habits to financially and emotionally hurt him, a longstanding and nicely documented sample of habits that she has engaged in all through her romantic life with previous lovers. 

In Louie’s swimsuit filed following her swimsuit, Louie talks about what occurred once they have been in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him again the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in Might 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie with out him giving her cash. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion once more and advised her he was going to depart the lodge and go dwelling. He provided to drive dwelling together with her however requested her to remain elsewhere that night as he needed to debate the breakup along with his sons with out her current. Louie says she refused to return with him or keep elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then referred to as the police and alerted them to the scenario as he didn’t wish to be in an altercation together with her in case she confirmed as much as his home. After driving off, a number of hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa needed to be picked up on the lodge. He rotated to seek out her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son referred to as once more and stated she discovered a experience. He says when he returned dwelling – Vanessa was already within the driveway of his home, ready to take objects out. And that Vanessa put her son as much as calling him merely to waste his time.

Extra From Bravo Ducking Bravo:

In accordance with extra court docket paperwork, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Fb account, controlling Louie Ruelas Fb account with out his information. Louie Ruelas was stated to seek out out about it when IT got here to his home and regarded by way of his laptop.

From Courtroom Paperwork:

Extra from the case through Bravo Ducking Bravo

For the previous few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world imagine Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what precisely is a Narcissist?

Narcissistic persona dysfunction entails a sample of self-centered, smug pondering and habits, an absence of empathy and consideration for different individuals, and an extreme want for admiration. Others usually describe individuals with NPD as cocky, manipulative, egocentric, patronizing, and demanding. This mind-set and behaving surfaces in each space of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to household and love relationships.

Individuals with narcissistic persona dysfunction are extraordinarily proof against altering their habits, even when it’s inflicting them issues. Their tendency is to show the blame on to others. What’s extra, they’re extraordinarily delicate and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as private assaults. For the individuals within the narcissist’s life, it’s usually simpler simply to go together with their calls for to keep away from the coldness and rages.

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The next paperwork are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas

We’re advised from former buddies of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would speak about her obsessively however reached out to her when she and Louie broke up in order that they may primarily “body him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time previous to ask about her ring.

That is nonetheless an ongoing case however in 2021 a Decide ordered that Louie retains the workplace laptop after it wipes off her data and that Vanessa retains her web site/enterprise, pays Louie 20k, retains the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie in regards to the different, make derogatory statements in regards to the different, harass the opposite. One thing Vanessa has did not comply with.

Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism knowledgeable and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist providing classes regardless of her historical past. She even not too long ago transfer to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is making an attempt to get on the present. It could be a dream come true if she was solid.”

That’s not all – we not too long ago bought perception by a number of AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s membership and would all the time converse within the room.

Vanessa not too long ago made headlines after she alleged that one in every of her sufferers have been truly employed to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order in opposition to him regardless of being the one who’s speaking about him day by day and contacting anybody affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Previous to offering the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser referred to as former RHONJ buddy of, Kim D and advised her that she was going to be placing a narrative on the market and to unfold the phrase. Not one thing a standard sufferer of abuse would do.

Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and he or she principally engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim in addition to Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on every submit. She additionally feedback on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will remark again on her web page and are following her as nicely.

Vanessa Reiser has additionally developed a detailed relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s latest vogue present. Vanessa Reiser is a mother of 1 who spends her days elevating consciousness for narcissistic abuse regardless of it being clear she has a historical past of narcissistic traits together with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ spotlight on her Instagram web page and continues to befriend anybody who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice.

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